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Better Together: 5 benefits of Meditating in Community

Blog/Better Together: 5 benefits of Meditating in Community

Dating back millennia, meditation, in its many forms, has been an ancient, Eastern spiritual practice. Meditation in Latin is meditatum, meaning “to ponder.” Although we do not know when, exactly, people began to meditate, experts agree that the practice probably began many thousands of years ago, before the birth of modern civilization.

So why has this practice stood the test of time?

The Buddha, who lived and taught in Southeast Asia about 2600 years ago, founded an experiential path that inspired generations of practitioners to sit in mindful awareness and notice their breath. People would come together to meditate and pray, making room for wisdom, compassion and peace to come forward.

To cultivate peace within, we need to practice creating space to observe our busy minds. We have the power to observe, release, and let our thoughts, feelings, emotions, go. We do not have to think about anything other than being right here and now. We can let the past be the past and future be unknown, to live the life right before our very eyes.

​In one formal meditation practice, we can practice allowing our thoughts to drift by, like a leaf floating down a stream. If we cling to our thoughts, and go into mental loops, we can start to sink and drag ourselves down to the bottom by our mental chatter. This can feel exhausting, overwhelming and anxiety ridden (to name a few things).

Instead, we can give our brains a time to relax from “thinking” through mindfulness-meditation, one way to cultivate this skill for inner peace! AND we do NOT have to do this alone! We can create a sangha — which is a Sanskrit word for “community” — which is one of the three gems of Buddhism.

One client said to me the other day, “Eleanor, I feel scatter brained and I’d like to connect with my true self. I know I have to do something differently. I have been trying to meditate on my own, but I just don’t do it! Maybe having a kind of meditation support group would help?”

I said, “OMG i love that idea! Let’s do it. I could use that too.” So, we decided to call it the ‘Magic of Meditation.’ The group was launched on November 22, 2022.

Often, we think of meditation as a solo journey, where we are asked to sit in isolation as we observe our own thoughts. We sit still, alone, on our cushion, eyes closed, in our own world, and on our own journey. But we are not alone…

Contrary to popular belief and traditional doctrine, meditation gains much of its power of transformation through community. The benefits of meditation in community are far-reaching, backed by science, and with many unexpected gifts that are gained with others. As American cultural anthropologist, Margaret Mead, once said, “Never doubt that a small group of people can change the world. Indeed it is the only thing that ever has.”

Below are some of the benefits of meditating in community and the magic that a sangha can bring to our meditation experience:

  • Community is a fundamental + biological human need

    As human beings, we are fundamentally social creatures. Our most basic human nature dictates that we learn, grow, and evolve in community. Isolation from others actually makes us sad and sick, and can rapidly lead us to death. Meditating in community, then, is a natural extension of our most innate human need, where we can get social support, empathy, compassion and understanding, especially as we learn the tools of meditation! Ever heard of the phrase “being on the same wavelength”? Our brainwaves literally sync during meditation, and it’s backed by science.

  • Community can offer feedback and support

    Meditation in community can push us to grow and stretch into spaces and places that we might otherwise not go without the presence of others to support this. Feedback, especially in a safe space with love and kindness as the intention, can help us grow and see what we cannot see in ourselves. This “outside looking in” can be valuable so we can step outside and see from another lens or perspective. If we can hold the practice of not taking anything personally, we can look at the feedback, feel it, and integrate the pieces that resonate, and leave the rest.

    On a personal note: I love good feedback because it helps me grow and soften, remembering my beginners mind! I like to thank whoever shared the feedback, even if it hurts because it is now a lens we have access to, and I believe seeing through the eyes of another supports us in feeling compassion for all beings everywhere.

  • Community can offer accountability aka: sit your butt down on that cushion!

    When we exercise, practice a new skill or learn on our own, it can be so easy to make excuses, procrastinate, or avoid doing the things that are most nourishing to us altogether. Meditating in community offers encouragement - and accountability - to show up on our cushions, so we can show up in our lives. When others are as deeply invested in their practice, it can rub off on us. (remember, we are wired together!) and if people support us to show up, it can be helpful and we just might actually show up for not just ourselves, but other people too!

  • Community can offer a sense of harmony & compassion for all beings everywhere.

    When we sit in community and have an opportunity to share with others and listen to their stories, we realize we are not so different after-all. We get out of our ego story as being the “most important” and we zoom out, remembering that there are other people here who have felt pain and pleasure too. This feeling is a shared sense of what Jack Kornfield calls, “Common Humanity,” where we can say, this person feels suffering and joy, just like me. This can allow us to stop ‘othering’ and become more wise and open hearted. When we are more wise and open hearted, we can reconnect with ourselves, each other, the earth and all beings everywhere. And when we are connected, we wire together and heal.

  • Community offer new connections, developing deeper relationships, and finding continual support

    We need a sangha, a community in our lives of others on this spiritual path! People who see us and hold us compassionately in the messiness and beauty of life is essential for our growth and happiness. We are tribal people by nature and we get to hold each other and ourselves accountable for true growth and healing day in and day out. Through the losses and gains we feel in our lives, we need other by our side to hold our hair when we’re sick, and to rejoice with us when we feel good! We get to expand our network to others all around the world who want to meditate too, which cultivates peace and healing across the globe, which I truly believe is what can change the world for good.
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